The Green Eyed Monster!!!

Jealousy is mostly about fear - fear of losing control, fear of the unknown, fear of change, fear of loss, fear of abandonment. It is a reflection of our own insecurities - our attractiveness, our desirability, our utility. When you feel jealous you must attack the target feelings like:

• What is the real thing that I fear?
• What should I do make the situation safe for me?
• How likely is that to happen?

When we are jealous we do not take the beloved one as a free person, entitled to act as he may. We are more and more inventive to limit him/her, till we make him/her our slave. But thereby all we do is become a slave of our own wishes.